Seek first to understand and then be understood

  • When you are talking to someone, make that person feel that he/she is the most important person in the world and you are present with him/her.
  • Focus on being present with whom ever you are communicating at that time.
  • Intention: intention is like a magnet that attacts people to your goals.
  • Use powerful appointment scripts telling prospect how the appointment can benefit them.
  • Use trust and rapport to increase sale, improve relationships: humor, seek first to understand and then be understood.
  • Mirror and match prospect on a subconscious level.
  • Leverage social media to build trust and create relationship: when viewing their profile, look at things they are interested in.
  • Influence another: enter the world of your prospect, view experience from his/her perspective.
  • Come from a place of service, how you can provide service to others.
From Eric Lofholm, disk 2 of 6, unstoppable selling system

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connie dello buono

Health educator, author and enterpreneur or ; cell 408-854-1883 Helping families in the bay area by providing compassionate and live-in caregivers for homebound bay area seniors. Blogs at Currently writing a self help and self cure ebook to help transform others in their journey to wellness, Healing within, transform inside and out. This is a compilation of topics Connie answered at and posts in this site.

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