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A male friend asked a Dear Abby advice

His girlfriend of 1.5 years is very cold or unemotional to him that each time after spending a day in bliss together, she will not answer or respond to his texts/phone calls for a day, a week or more (10 days). She never calls after their quality time or date together.

She is unattached the next day or many days after spending quality time with him. They spend a blissful day during their dates but the next day or weeks she does not talk to him. She would tell him that you are too dramatic if he is too emotional.

He never heard her say I like you or I love you to him.  She would always be late for their date for many hours.


Connie’s advice: Empathy is a loving gesture and a trait of a normal person in love or who cares about another person. Most women wanted to hear the voice of their lover daily since it help balance  their hormones. Most women are always waiting and dreaming in anticipation of their dates or quality time schedule with their partner or lover.  Most women say words of encouragement or loving words to be romantic to their lovers. Most women show empathy, cries often to show how they care. Lack of empathy means there is no feeling.  So I told him to ask her what she wants and how they see each other in next 5 years or more. He has to worry less and find a relationship that is loving, positive and mutually beneficial and loving.

 

Published by connie dello buono

Connie Dello Buono is based in Sunnyvale California. Her first ebook is about women's health, Birthing Ways Healing Ways and her recent one is about cancer prevention, Curated Healing Ways. She had helped women have holistic childbirth as childbirth educator, founded Motherhealth, to serve seniors in the bay area with holistic caregivers and blogs at www.clubalthea.com with more than 10,000 health and finance related posts. Connie trains her own caregivers, which are the favorites of most bay area seniors who are home bound and alone. She is active in the rehab and nursing facilities, volunteering on music and movement for seniors. She is a member of Lion's club and offered scholarships to students in the Philippines. She is active at churchinsunnyvale.us and has Fridays Bible home study in Sunnyvale using the recovery version of the Bible , free at biblesforamerica.us She loves dancing and teaching and her courses can be found at https://teachclub.com/@thriveafter60 She is California Life Insurance licensed providing life insurance for older adults with health issues and helping women retire safely with income for life. at menloassetca.com , she helps with 401k rollover. 3 Benefit plans - Mortgage protection using term life insurance to pay for mortgage balance in event of death - Final Expense plan using Single Issue Whole Life Insurance, with cash back, disability benefit and guaranteed in the presence of health issues - Fixed Index Annuity retirement plan for safe, accessibility, less fees, less taxes, avoids probate as it goes directly to beneficiaries, rate of return with no downside market participation. She brings compassion and understanding to the needs of her clients, bringing holistic approach in health and life insurance. Her goal is to free families from worries especially during covid with caregivers and life insurance in the presence of health issues, especially for women. She can be reached at 408-854-1883 , motherhealth@gmail.com

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