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Dying at home with family and caregivers – a hospice story of life with cancer

Hospitals are for surgery and medical emergency. I delivered my children at home with nurse midwives. Thank God I do not have a major operation. Some family members spent few minutes in an outpatient setting for cataract and other minor treatment. I drove a friend for an outpatient surgical breast implant.

Hospitals are not suited for hospice patients dying of cancer since you can spend more quality time at home with love ones.

Family, caregivers and hospice nurses take time in caring for your needs. Most of the time, you are bed-ridden and having no big appetite or is constipated.

The loving presence of family and caregivers are more important than medications during the last stage of our lives.

I once massaged a senior who had diabetes and dying of ovarian cancer. Her legs are blackened and I taught another caregiver how to comfort her at night. She lived for 6 days more when the doctor said she only have 2 days to live.  Later on during the funeral mass, her family asked all caregivers to stand and get an applause from the audience. It is heart warming when families appreciate the work of all caregivers.

In the bay area , the most common cancers we have experienced from our clients are ovarian, prostate, pancreatic, lung, brain , bone and kidney cancers.

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Published by connie dello buono

Connie Dello Buono is based in Sunnyvale California. Her first ebook is about women's health, Birthing Ways Healing Ways and her recent one is about cancer prevention, Curated Healing Ways. She had helped women have holistic childbirth as childbirth educator, founded Motherhealth, to serve seniors in the bay area with holistic caregivers and blogs at www.clubalthea.com with more than 10,000 health and finance related posts. Connie trains her own caregivers, which are the favorites of most bay area seniors who are home bound and alone. She is active in the rehab and nursing facilities, volunteering on music and movement for seniors. She is a member of Lion's club and offered scholarships to students in the Philippines. She is active at churchinsunnyvale.us and has Fridays Bible home study in Sunnyvale using the recovery version of the Bible , free at biblesforamerica.us She loves dancing and teaching and her courses can be found at https://teachclub.com/@thriveafter60 She is California Life Insurance licensed providing life insurance for older adults with health issues and helping women retire safely with income for life. at menloassetca.com , she helps with 401k rollover. 3 Benefit plans - Mortgage protection using term life insurance to pay for mortgage balance in event of death - Final Expense plan using Single Issue Whole Life Insurance, with cash back, disability benefit and guaranteed in the presence of health issues - Fixed Index Annuity retirement plan for safe, accessibility, less fees, less taxes, avoids probate as it goes directly to beneficiaries, rate of return with no downside market participation. She brings compassion and understanding to the needs of her clients, bringing holistic approach in health and life insurance. Her goal is to free families from worries especially during covid with caregivers and life insurance in the presence of health issues, especially for women. She can be reached at 408-854-1883 , motherhealth@gmail.com

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