Finding love is easier for younger ones than for older ones

Yes, finding love is a numbers game in this day and age where we find the profile of our match via a dating site.

I have scheduled many dates for tea or green juice at Whole Foods Store close to where I live in the bay area. Many times, the men will not buy you a drink. And you realized that there is not much interesting about the conversation that you wanted to bail out but stayed for a little longer to make friends. Some of them became my friends but not partner in love.  I heard so many stories how they broke up with their exes, adore their children, spend their weekends, and other stories from their heart.

You tried to ask questions to know the person better that maybe the outside appearance which is not going to highlight the fine qualities of the man.

I always tell my single friends to ask 3 questions that are most important to them and when they like the answer that maybe they are in front of their soul mate.

Many divorced men had promised to themselves never to marry again for financial reasons since they lost half of their 401k to their ex-wives in California. California law states that all properties must be equally divided.

Did I find my soul mate yet? Not yet.

But I am always hopeful and will persevere even if the odds are against my favor. For at the end, each one of us has a partner waiting to be loved.


There is a reason we are meant to make friends

To dance away the night for the music that stirs our hearts

To play tennis or game of hide and seek

To watch a movie that makes both of us laugh, cry and be happy

To embrace another human as hugs are therapeutic and so important for women

To hear a man’s voice as we put ourselves to sleep

To feel the warmth of the sun during the many days of walking in nature with another human being

To have someone to chat with during weekend lunch and dinner

And most of all to hold hands and to melt as he looks at me with his charismatic eyes.

Tips for online dating: Meet in person and do not over text for first intro. Some who uses the word Dear or do not meet you in person are Fakes. Beware of long texts. The man who loves you brings you valuable gifts..from the book 5 Stages of Love.


Join us for dancing at Starlite Ballroom in Boulinger San Jose on Saturday night Black and White Ball.

Free: Completion of Health and Life Coach Training

Completion of Health and Life Coach Training from Motherhealth Inc, online and via home-study

Study Goals

Provide a supportive role and holistic approach to health, nutrition, lifestyle, exercise and life choices to promote wellness and wellbeing for those with health issues, seniors, pregnant women, women, men and children.

Total study time

35 hrs of reading from Wellness Reading List, watching Youtube health videos, TED, attending health seminars and essay (10 pages) on health ( seniors, women, men, children, health issues) .

Now FREE health coach training

Email to start the training and receive the wellness reading list.

Start Date: Now

Mailing address: Connie Dello Buono, Motherhealth Inc, 1708 Hallmark Lane San Jose, CA 95124

Cell (text): 408-854-1883

Skype ID:  conniedb49 (one on one personalized health coaching (1), completion of training (2))

Note: This training gives you a completion of health and life coach training from Motherhealth Inc.  Your clients should always seek a primary healthcare provider. Being a health-life coach is only in support of their medical and other healthcare provider in area of comfort, research, and coaching in line with their health goals and that of their healthcare provider.


Hint, most of the reading materials can also be found at , Dr Mercola, , TED, yahoo health, medical journals and textbooks, holistic books (1. Signs and Symptoms Analysis from a functional perspective by Dicken Weatherby ND 2. Create your own health coaching reading list 3. Health Guide ebook on herbs and nutrition by Connie Dello Buono 4. Senior care and Pregnancy care ebooks by Connie Dello Buono) other health/wellness books displayed at Pharmaca Pharmacy and Whole Foods Store.  Online webinar via skype and google+ shall also be delivered.

Training Outline

Section 1: Introduction to Evidence-based Health Coaching and Life Coaching

Calling for collaborators (NDs,chiropractors, MDs,other health providers)

Section 2: Identifying Your Communication Style

Section 4: Tapping into the Client’s Learning Style

Section 5: Facilitating Health Behavior Change

Calling for collaborators (NDs,chiropractors, MDs,other health providers)

Section 6: Guiding the Health Coaching Agenda & Goal Setting

Section 7: Motivational Interviewing (MI)

Calling for collaborators (NDs,chiropractors, MDs,other health providers)

Section 8: Wellness and Prevention

Personalized wellness for Seniors, those with health issues, terminally ill, women, men, children, pregnant women and all workers

Pituitary Gland of the Brain, Leptin and Food craving, timing for eating and right kinds of nutrients

Weight lifting, walking, swimming, exercises when on the bed/sitting, more

Section 9: Evidence-based Practice Interventions for Chronic Conditions

Own your own essential oil global store

The healing power of essential oils has been known for centuries. Our skin absorbs most of the nutrients better than our organs. If you have difficulty sleeping, use Serenity. If you want to get pregnant, use the hormone balance supplement,  Phyoestrogen and email Connie for other holistic tips.

Essential oils of meleuluca, rosemary, grapefruit and frankincense are cleansing. Clarycalm essential oil calms your nerves, allowing most body function to work since the brain is the master control that is affected by the aroma and healing properties of essential oils.

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Click Join and enter this code: 1140108 . If your country is not listed from the list, use GlobalAccess country (e.g. China, etc) . Email and skype me for training.

You now own your own ecommerce of essential oils.