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Senior Caregiving Guide, a summary

Since 2000, in care homes and in my own experience with other bay area seniors who sought help from Motherhealth caregivers and my own parents, my dad who died of lung cancer at 62 and my mom who still works at 77 yrs old, the following are senior care giving guide:

1. Emotional support, listening and talking with them make them sane and prevents many major ailments related to worries and medications such as neuro meds giving them more side effects such as easy to fall, constipation and stroke.
2. Know early warning signs. Small signs of body deteriorating from inability to eat, say words right away as before, lose of weight and blood shot eyes are immediate signs of cancer and other major ailments such as stroke. For Alzheimer’s Disease, during the last year you will notice the inability to walk.
3. Feeding the right food, careful of interactions with right medications and timing. My uncle took a regular iron pills the night before and died the next day since he had already undiagnosed heart problems. Many African Americans and Latinos are prone to heart disease that an unhealthy lifestyle coupled by environmental toxins can exacerbate the health issue related to the heart and major organs.
4. Know what is good for constipation from exercise, prune juice, cranberry juice, whole foods and right meds (senna, magnesium citrate, others). Careful to use proper hygiene and sanitation, wearing gloves, changing and diapering and just plain cleanliness prevent major complications such as UTI and death.
5. 24/7 care is very important for seniors who needs them. During the last days of a terminally ill client, giving comfort and loving care with all preparations in place, living will and proper estate planning can save a ton of grief to the family.
6. And surround yourself with a support system, a visiting nurse, on-call doctor, and other health care pro for it takes a village to care for a senior with terminal illness or disability.

Connie Dello Buono, CA Life Lic 0G60621, 408-854-1883 Financial Planner and health author 
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Slow down, keep a healthy weight and deep breathing to prevent stroke

Stroke is clogging of brain blood vessels from clot or blood as a result of the destroyed vascular tissues from inflammations over long period of time caused by toxins that were not cleaned by our body. This is 80% of the stroke, ischemic/cerebral infarction. The other 20% is intracerebral Haemorrhage.

Sudden disruption of blood supply to the brain
Transient lodging of a blood clot blocking the vascular vessel of the brain
Rest, relaxation, rhythm of the heart natural pumping is not normal
Oxygen deprivation in the body cells, a prelude to stroke, brain cell lack of oxygen
K, Vit K working hard in blood clotting because of the presence of inflammation/stress, broken vascular walls or tissues invaded by toxins
Energy, life, growth giving elasticity to vessel walls, viscosity to blood, strength to the heart muscles, healthy and clean blood, all body organs working to clear the body of toxins.

RN of HEALTH

Restore Health with our healthy body cleaning out toxins and reduce inflammation by strengthening our immune system
Nourishing our blood vessels with essential nutrients (red, yellow, green veggies/fruits), not feeding our cancerous cells with sugar and other toxins.

Note: Get Physical/Medical Yearly Exam for prevention. Let’s assume that we have an inherent make up/genes of easily bruised by toxins because our genes are working too hard to clean our body as we rush to live each day. So to prevent further damage in the future, we go to have medical check-up to check our baseline health.

Elimination of toxins with fiber since fiber encapsulates the fat and sugar out of our body.
Absorption of essential nutrients from lifestyle/environment, body functions and food.
Living with low blood pressure, no diabetes, no inflammation, strong immune system, strong support group
Taking a walk or getting the needed activity to take in more oxygen

Having the time to breath and live life according to its natural rhythm with balance to get the endurance to live long with toxin-free body.

Before ischemia/cell death or paralysis: there is migraine, temporary loss of memory or orientation and balance, slow motor functions and reflexes, poor circulation and brain/body cell oxygen starvation.

Super charge your retirement savings, even at 60 yrs old

Saving $500 per month allows you to add $100k more to your savings.
Saving $750 per month allows you to add $250k more to your savings.
Adding $10k more during the first year, ups your retirement savings more.

How much is it worth contributing to if you want access to up to $1.5M when a health threat arise, such as cancer,stroke, blindness, disability? Would you want to have a retirement strategy that grows at 13%, safe and tax-free during withdrawal, accumulation and distribution?
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Break the mental barrier.
Roger Bannister, a runner who ran the mile in under 4min in 1954 has a secret, working with a team and with training and hard work, he broke down the mental fort as many more runners after him broke the under 4 min record run.  He said to his team  run faster, and turned the game to how fast he can run.
We have clarity of vision, a crusade to help one family at a time in 50 US states with full field support and training.
Nothing is great done alone. You have to do it with the team.
What kind of success can be achieved by the team working together.
Here’s the statistics for U.S. Household Income:
Top 10% = $114,000
Top 3% = $160,000
Top 2% = $250,000
Top 1% = $384,000
At the financial group where I belong, a team of people will help you achieve the $160,000 income in less than a year , part time. It is your decision to be prosperous this year 2014. Take a leap even as referral agent, we are hiring part time referral agents. Call Connie Dello Buono 408-854-1883 , motherhealth@gmail.com
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Long term care costs

What isn’t covered by Original Medicare:

  • Deductibles
  • Co-payments
  • Long-term care outside of a nursing home, or care at home, unless it’s provided by a professional nurse or therapist
  • Care for daily living such as walking, dressing, bathing, shopping, eating and taking medicine
  • More than 100 days of Skilled Nursing Facility (SNF) care following a hospital stay
  • Cooking and cleaning services
  • Private-duty nurse
  • Dental care and dentures
  • Health expenses outside U.S., except for some occurrences
  • Emergency care outside U.S.
  • Cosmetic surgery
  • Routine foot care
  • Eyeglasses (except after cataract removal)
  • Hearing aids

I have an IUL policy that is all in one for it also includes a retirement savings plan that grows up to 13.5%, tax free with zero market risk, asset protection/life insurance to leave an estate to my children and health benefits, access to 70-90% of the face value when I need long term care or have chronic illness, terminal or critical illness.

In care homes 24/7, with assistance to daily living, the cost starts from $3,500 per month. You live with 6 more clients in a home with 2 caregivers.

We need 24/7 care when we need assistance in daily living (ADL): bathing, feeding, transferring, toileting, total of 6 ADL and long term care is 2 out of 6 ADL that you cannot perform alone.

Deep breathing, exercise, healthy diet and de-stressing routines, helped me when I know that my heart is palpating from excess weight and lack of exercise.

Keep a healthy lifestyle and if you need a health policy in one with retirement savings and asset protection, contact Connie Dello Buono 408-854-1883 ; motherhealth@gmail.com CA Life Lic 0G60621 in the bay area.

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2013 in review

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Here’s an excerpt:

The concert hall at the Sydney Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 13,000 times in 2013. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 5 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.

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Thank you all for visiting my site. I am sharing my wealth to those who needs college funds, retirement funds, senior care, pregnancy wellness, women’s and men’s health issues and just plainly looking for happiness, wealth and contentment.

Share your thoughts. We can all make a significant contribution. I share my income to 14 college students, 2 seniors and many housewives I have taught Zumba dance fitness and new moms I share childbirth and baby care tips.

The world is beautiful and no worries should add more lines on your face. We feel the way we view things around us. Be happy, your good thoughts matter.

Have a dream, we will help you reach it as we are hiring part time or full time retirement planners with health benefits. Connie 408-854-1883 motherhealth@gmail.com

Our mothers told us to not over spend

No mortgage , auto or credit card debts and saving more each day is our motto.    Do not take out unnecessary college loans when there is community college and degrees with higher return on investments.

  1. Live small always. Diversify investments all over the place. When you retire, or are laid off, be ready to relocate anywhere that makes fiscal sense – inside or outside the US.
  2. Do not buy a car when there are buses and you live near your school or job.
  3. Try paying out yourself first, add more deductions in your tax withholdings (see last section about claiming more tax withholding allowances) and save monthly and not wait for a tax refund.
  4. Do not buy a house you cannot afford, save in long-term savings such as Index Universal life Policy, accumulation and distribution tax-free.
  5. Four ways we are taxed: income, capital gains, estate taxes and sales tax
  6. Four ways we can save: save early at young age even at $100 per month in an indexed annuity or index universal life policy and follow the lists listed in this post (see 1-4).
  7. Buy only what you need and not what you want, decent car and cell (service plan of $40 per month), decent house and have only two children.
  8. Find experiences that gives you more pleasure without spending thousands on vacation hot spots.
  9. Take care of your health each day so you won’t spend more when you age and your body is slowly giving up.
  10. Marry a man or woman who have the same savings values as you are, living small and wisely saving away for retirement.

If you are not terrified of inflation, wait until you see what that does to your retirement.    This money printing from Washington overspending may not destroy you today, but if you expect to retire in the future, you should wake up to this. Of course, if you plan to work until the year of your death, then you can disregard this.

If you have substantial income besides Social Security in retirement, not only will you pay tax on it, you’ll pay tax on more of your Social Security. Your Medicare premiums will be higher and your property taxes may well be higher, since you’ll be disqualified from the tax abatements offered to seniors by many local governments. Republicans aren’t satisfied with these disincentives, and want to means-test Medicare, which is just another way of saying they intend to tax your retirement savings even more. In fact, every government program for seniors that has a means test is, in effect, a tax on savings.

Live small always. Diversify investments all over the place. When you retire, or are laid off, be ready to relocate anywhere that makes fiscal sense – inside or outside the US.

When did the recession first hit? A little over 6 years ago? We earn a little more money these days, because we went into debt for college. We haven’t defaulted on those loans, and don’t plan to….but they changed the rules creating all kinds of financial woes. We’ve moved, too, with the new line of work, but due to the housing market crash, we have a house that we can neither rent nor sell – so we pay both rent and mortgage every month. That effectively means we live on less money now than we did 7 years ago when we earned less and saved more. We took a risk, things didn’t quite work out the way we’d hoped. So, we can pay for day to day living, we can keep up with our debt OR we can save for retirement…. but we can only manage one and a half of those three.

Many Americans are on course to struggle financially in retirement even though the overall amount of money being set aside for retirement is growing. As of mid-2013, Americans had more than $20 trillion in retirement assets through 401(k)-type plans, traditional defined benefit pensions, IRAs, and annuities, according to a report released earlier this month by the Investment Companies Institute, which represents mutual funds, and the American Benefits Council, and the American Council of Life Insurers.

But that money, while growing, is not distributed equally, many argue. Most of the money is being saved by higher income Americans, while many working class and low-wage workers are struggling to even earn regular full-time hours at work.

The NIRS report said that among households headed by blacks and hispanics between the ages of 55 and 64, the average retirement savings account balance was $30,000. Among whites on the verge of retirement, it was $120,000. Meanwhile, investment and human resource firms typically recommend that retirees have assets worth anywhere from eighth to 11 times their annual wages in order to adequately prepare for old age.

“One of the big issues here is a gap in access,” Oakley said. “We have what is essentially a voluntary retirement system and what we know is when we look at minority households, their access to retirement plans on the job is much less than that for whites.”

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Disregarding Your Withholding Can Be Taxing

Calculating a level of withholding that is “just right” can sometimes take as much time as preparing a tax return. As a result, some people are inclined the skip the math. For those who want to keep things as simple as possible, the easiest course of action is for taxpayers to claim either Single or Married with one withholding allowance on Form W-4 (pdf). This usually results in a refund for most people. However, there are situations in which claiming one withholding allowance is not sufficient to cover tax liabilities. This seems to be the case in which a person has significant investment income or higher taxes due to the Alternative Minimum Tax. So even people who want to keep things simple and count on a refund should review their withholding at least periodically.

Calculating Withholding More Accurately

The more accurate way to adjust your withholding is to create a projected tax return for this year. You can do this by using the same tax forms you used last year, but substitute the current tax rates. For example, you could calculate your income and deductions based on what you expect for 2013, and use the 2013 tax rates to find out what your projected tax will be. You can also use the worksheet found in Form 1040-ES (pdf), which has formulas for calculating taxes for the current tax year.

After figuring out the tax liability, I then use the withholding calculator found on the IRS Web site to see what the suggested withholding allowances might be. You can also do the math by hand by using the worksheets provided with Form W-4.

What’s a Withholding Allowance?

Withholding allowances do not solely pertain to dependents or to the personal exemption amount, though withholding allowances are related. A withholding allowance is a way for your payroll department to use the look-up tables provided by the IRS to figure out how much tax to withhold from each paycheck. Roughly, a withholding allowance represents your total tax deductions divided by the personal exemption amount. This results in a ratio, and this ratio is how many withholding allowances you should claim. For further explanation please refer to the example below:

Example: Mary is a single parent, qualifies as head of household, and has one dependent. Let’s further assume that her deductions will consist of the standard deduction and two personal exemptions (one for herself and one for her child. The math for her withholding allowances would look like this (all figures below are for the 2013 tax year):

  • Standard deduction: 8,950
  • Personal exemptions: 2 x 3,900 = 7,800
  • Total tax deductions: 8,950 + 7,800 = 16,750
  • Deductions divided by personal exemption amount: 16,750 / 3,900 = 4.295

In this example, Mary would claim Single and four withholding allowances on her W-4 Form. (It’s advisable to round down the ratio to avoid having too little tax withheld from your paycheck.) In other words, Mary would check the Single box on line 3 of the Form W-4 and would write “4” on line 5 of the Form W-4 where it asks for “Total number of allowances you are claiming.”

This is a simplified method for finding withholding allowances. For a longer method, see the document, How to Fill out Form W-4.

Seeing How Your New Withholding Allowances Will Impact Your Future Pay Checks

Now that you have figured out your withholding allowances, you can use this figure to see what the tax impact is on your next paycheck will be. You just take the newly calculated withholding allowances and plug them into a payroll calculator. Be sure to have your recent paystub handy so you can use your actual income amounts.

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89 yr old female with Alzheimer’s Disease, no meds in care home

Surprisingly only anti-allergy tab and vitamins are taken by this senior in a care home. She walks, plays with her stuff toys and has good bowel movement.  She has the brain of a young child while playing with her food or stuff toys but at 89 yr old, Annie still laughs and is very focus in playing with things around her, table napkins and toys.  She needs help with the daily activities of living such as bathing, feeding, toileting, but she can still walk.  One of the male senior in same care home she is in who also had  Alzheimer’s Disease has been taking so many medications that now he could barely walk and is always constipated.

 Most seniors have a cocktail of meds, more than 10 kinds of medications and are constipated and have difficulty walking with their brain deteriorating. 

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If you are preparing for old age and needs long term care or chronically ill, I would like to recommend a retirement plan with access to funds during health threats such as chronic, terminal and critical illnesses.  Call Connie Dello Buono at 408-854-1883 , motherhealth@gmail.com CA Life Lic 0G60621, for this plan in 50 US states.

No scarcity of opportunity , only scarcity of resolve to make it happen

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There is no scarcity of opportunity to make a living at what you love; there’s only scarcity of resolve to make it happen.
Wayne Dyer

This new year, 2014, we resolve to make things that we love to do and accomplish happen. With massive actions, getting the results we need from the success list that we create.

We protect our time to follow through our success list. The fortune is in the follow up.

We align ourselves with successful people, with positive influence in our business and lives.

We still have a balance life, as we aspire to achieve the material rewards that we plan to do.

Money allows us to taste the blessings from the fruit of our labors and we share it with others.

We become significant because we share.

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If you are looking for a business that you can tap the experience of successful people, we are looking for part time or full time financial planners (in the bay area and 50 US states) with life and health insurance license to be non-captive agents and build your organization with our system and profit sharing.

Call Connie Dello Buono, 408-854-1883 , motherhealth@gmail.com

The Newborn after Birth

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Newborns feel, remember and are influenced by their experiences. During the first few weeks of life, they need mother’s milk (if possible), warmth and sleep. When travelling, mothers before us have worn a sling to carry baby around in which rocks the newborn to sleep. Sleeping with their mothers helps newborn babies to regulate their breathing. I have practiced sleeping together with my children from the time they were born.

Most mothers observed that full term and healthy babies have less colic problems especially when they are breastfed and massaged before or after each bath. Nelson Textbook on Pediatrics stated that crying from intestinal discomfort and intestinal obstruction or peritoneal infection may mimic an attack of colic and the following preventive measures can be sought: improving feeding techniques, including burping, providing a stable environment, identifying possible allergenic foods and avoiding underfeeding or overfeeding.
A study on the abilities of newborns tells us that:

  •  After about an hour and a half, infants began to make crawling movements toward their mother’s breast.
  • At an average of fifty minutes after birth most were sucking correctly (they open their mouth wide, with the tongue under the areola, and express milk from the breast with deep sucks). This happens in a setting where the room is darkened, loud noises are avoided and people speak in low voices.
  • Infants separated from their mothers at twenty minutes generally cried out loudly in protest.
  • The first hour of contact of the mother with her baby skin-to-skin on her abdomen provides time to know each other.
  • Mother tends to fall in love with the baby sooner when the baby is kept with her immediately after birth.
  • They can recognize their own infants from others by merely touching the backs of the babies’ hands or by smelling their clothing.
  • The mother can feel herself into the infant’s place.
  •  There are still many things that we don’t know about newborns including the essential nutrients that they derive from mother’s milk. That is why we continually modify the formulation in the so called Baby Formula.
  • Touch, love, constant care and happy parents are what newborn wants….
  • The midwife catches the baby and promotes a calm birth experience for the baby. Experiences inside the womb and at birth influence the shaping of human personality. Impact of roots of violence can take hold in prenatal life.
  • Infant trauma inside the womb can influence the future of the newborn.

When the new baby needs to be seen by a doctor

The American College of Nurse Midwives has the following instructions to parents of new babies about when to call their caregiver (midwife or doctor). Parents are the first to observe their babies and should call their midwife or doctor when they see any of the danger signals below:
1. Dehydration – fewer and fewer wet diapers, dry inside of mouth (put little finger in baby’s mouth and let it suck – should feel wet and slippery, not dry and sticky). Be especially alert if the weather is hot, the baby has diarrhea, is not nursing well or acts sick.
2. Won’t eat – disinterested in nursing, too weak or sleepy to suck, few wet diapers, several days without stool. Seek out breastfeeding advice.
3. Abnormal skin color/Jaundice – if the baby becomes increasingly yellow/orange (especially the hands and feet), becomes too sleepy to nurse, wets few diapers (3 or less a day), has no stools. Cyanosis (bluish color) or very pale skin color. Both are very dangerous signs, often accompanied by respiratory distress (working hard to breathe). Go immediately to a hospital, a doctor or call 911.
4. Change in consciousness – very fussy, high-pitched-cry, a weak cry, or acts like he or she has a stiff neck, has poor color (very pale or bluish), is hard to wake up or has a fever. However, little babies can be very sick and still not have an elevated temperature. These serious problems may be caused by a dangerous infection, bleeding in the brain, or heart and lung problems that keep the baby from getting enough oxygen.
5. Bleeding, bruising, blood-filled lumps under the skin, bloody diarrhea or urine; except for a few drops of watery-blood from the umbilical stump when it is failing off or in the baby’s diaper, babies shouldn’t bleed or bruise. Be especially concerned if the baby is exclusively breast-fed or did not receive Vitamin K at birth. Seek medical help and be sure to tell the doctor if the baby did not receive Vitamin K. Expect a blood test (PPT) to help diagnose a deficiency in blood clotting factors.

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written by  Connie Dello Buono
author of Birthing Ways Healing Ways
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“There is no scarcity of opportunity to make a living at what you love; there’s only scarcity of resolve to make it happen.”

― Wayne Dyer