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Now that I have a teenage daughter, I have to apply the same beliefs and walk my talk

Your choice of a marriage partner starts when you choose whom to date

What does dating have to do with whom you choose to marry? Most people don’t date people whose company they don’t enjoy. If you enjoy someone’s company, it’s very likely infatuation or even love might enter the relationship. Once that happens, after an emotional tie forms, you might think religion doesn’t matter. When our emotions stifle the messages our brains try to send, we leave ourselves vulnerable to making bad decisions that can destroy our lives and those of our children.

Long before we start to date, we should consider the kind of marriage we want to have. If you have a vibrant faith or adhere strongly to a religion, it is probably an important part of who you are. You will probably want to raise your children in your faith, worship with your spouse, and maybe have devotions as a family. Your faith may determine how you want to spend your money and your time. It may determine how you expect to spend the holidays you normally celebrate. But if you are dating someone who does not share your faith, and you fall in love, your road will not be a smooth one. If you are a Christian, you would be wise to limit your dating to Christians. It will lessen your chances of marrying a man who does not share your values and beliefs. It will lessen your chances of having God’s best in your marriage. Your parents may have told you that. Your church may have told you that. But when we are young, we don’t always listen. After all, we reason, it’s just a date. I’m not going to marry him (or her).

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Connie’s comments: I am gathering comments from all of you , even stories. I know in many movies, love overpowers faith, but in reality faith and love go together.

In my caregiving business, I have interviewed many couple who were together for over 50 yrs and they told me that they respect each other and love each other that divorce is not an option, even when they belong to two different churches. In most cases the other partner converts to the faith of the spouse.

Knowing the person each day and loving that person with all of his/her persona, takes many trial and error until we discover ourselves in the process. A complete person takes the challenge, applies what to be learned from a given situation and let love prevail in the end. Loving ourselves first before we can truly love another. For happiness is the sum of acceptance, love, forgiveness and positive intention.

I still choose the intricacies of being in love, finding love and even losing love, for at the end the journey one takes in the process of finding love is memory that can be savored in a lifetime.

Love begets love, faith begets faith.

for a reason or gush of wind

at times we meet someone

for a reason or a gush of wind

maybe a prayer or a desire

that met and locked eyes

for a moment we think

we found the one

but we are called to play a role

to mend a broken heart

to heal wounds

to make the body whole

for in the end

the moment is what counts

no words

just a gush of wind

or a reason

to play in memories

hopefully forever
——————
Love is what you are; it’s the center of your creation. It’s your point of origination and can become your point of attraction as well. As Karl Menninger told his patients, and anyone else who was suffering and willing to listen, “Love cures, the ones who receive love and the ones who give it, too.”

Dietary nutrients and exercises for the brain

As any other organ, the brain is elaborated from substances present in the diet (sometimes exclusively, for vitamins, minerals, essential amino-acids and essential fatty acids, including omega- 3 polyunsaturated fatty acids). Most micronutrients (vitamins and trace-elements) have been directly evaluated in the setting of cerebral functioning.

For instance, to produce energy, the use of glucose by nervous tissue implies the presence of vitamin B1; this vitamin modulates cognitive performance, especially in the elderly.
Vitamin B9 preserves brain during its development and memory during ageing.
Vitamin B6 is likely to benefit in treating premenstrual depression.
Vitamins B6 and B12, among others, are directly involved in the synthesis of some neurotransmitters. Vitamin B12 delays the onset of signs of dementia (and blood abnormalities), provided it is administered in a precise clinical timing window, before the onset of the first symptoms. Supplementation with cobalamin improves cerebral and cognitive functions in the elderly; it frequently improves the functioning of factors related to the frontal lobe, as well as the language function of those with cognitive disorders. Adolescents who have a borderline level of vitamin B12 develop signs of cognitive changes.
In the brain, the nerve endings contain the highest concentrations of vitamin C in the human body (after the suprarenal glands). Vitamin D (or certain of its analogues) could be of interest in the prevention of various aspects of neurodegenerative or neuroimmune diseases.
Among the various vitamin E components (tocopherols and tocotrienols), only alpha-tocopherol is actively uptaken by the brain and is directly involved in nervous membranes protection.
Even vitamin K has been involved in nervous tissue biochemistry.
Iron is necessary to ensure oxygenation and to produce energy in the cerebral parenchyma (via cytochrome oxidase), and for the synthesis of neurotransmitters and myelin; iron deficiency is found in children with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. Iron concentrations in the umbilical artery are critical during the development of the foetus, and in relation with the IQ in the child; infantile anaemia with its associated iron deficiency is linked to perturbation of the development of cognitive functions. Iron deficiency anaemia is common, particularly in women, and is associated, for instance, with apathy, depression and rapid fatigue when exercising.
Lithium importance, at least in psychiatry, is known for a long time. Magnesium plays important roles in all the major metabolisms: in oxidation-reduction and in ionic regulation, among others.
Zinc participates among others in the perception of taste.
An unbalanced copper metabolism homeostasis (due to dietary deficiency) could be linked to Alzheimer disease.
The iodine provided by the thyroid hormone ensures the energy metabolism of the cerebral cells; the dietary reduction of iodine during pregnancy induces severe cerebral dysfunction, actually leading to cretinism.
Among many mechanisms, manganese, copper, and zinc participate in enzymatic mechanisms that protect against free radicals, toxic derivatives of oxygen. More specifically, the full genetic potential of the child for physical growth ad mental development may be compromised due to deficiency (even subclinical) of micronutrients. Children and adolescents with poor nutritional status are exposed to alterations of mental and behavioural functions that can be corrected by dietary measures, but only to certain extend. Indeed, nutrient composition and meal pattern can exert either immediate or long-term effects, beneficial or adverse.

Brain diseases during aging can also be due to failure for protective mechanism, due to dietary deficiencies, for instance in anti-oxidants and nutrients (trace elements, vitamins, non essential micronutrients such as polyphenols) related with protection against free radicals.

Complex carbohydrates helps bring serenity to the brain while greens (chlorophyll rich such as kale) bring oxygen to brain cells.

Essential oils for boosting your mental capacity: rosemary, peppermint, basil

Herbs for the brain: gingko, licorice, oatstraw, schizandra berries, Brahmi, gotu kola, ashwaghandha, valerian or tagara, tulsi, vacha, barley grass, bee pollen, cacao, catuaba, chlorella, chia seeds, dulse, goji, guarana, ginger, hemp seeds, korean ginseng, kelp, linseed,coconut, latino spice tea, red maca, maca, menthyl crystals, pumpkin seeds, pine resin, reishi mushroom, rise and shine tea, siberian ginseng, St Johns wort, wheatgrass, wakame, sunflower seeds, spirulina, sesame seeds, eleuthero root, american skullcap, chamomile, irish moss, lemon balm, passionflower, wild oats, blue vervain, lavender, peppermint, cinnamon, cloves, garlic, turmeric, sage, mint, rosemary, rooibos tea, huperzine, lycopine, al[ha lipoic acid, bacopa or water hyssop, rhodiola rosea or golden root, L-Theanine, hibiscus, jatamamsi, shakha pushpi

Gotu Kola ( Centella asiatica ) is used in India as a cerebral tonic. Containing calcium, pangamic acid, phosphorus and the amino acid glutamine, gotu kola has been used to treat amnesia, dementia, fatigue and senility. It has a revitalizing effect on the brain cells and nerves.
Ginkgo ( Ginkgo biloba ) helps improve the brain’s ability to utilize oxygen and glucose by improving peripheral blood flow. Ginkgo improves nerve transmission, activates ATP (Adenosine triphosphate), an organic compound that aids metabolic reactions. Ginkgo is one of the most prescribed herbs in Europe and recommended in treating dementia, memory loss, senility and promoting recovery from stroke. It is an antioxidant and cerebral tonic.
Bacopa ( Bacopa monnieri ) is used in Ayurvedic medicine as a nourishing brain, nerve and kidney tonic. It enhances neurotransmitter function.
Rosemary ( Rosmarinus officinalis ) was used by ancient Greek scholars, who wore laurels of rosemary when taking examinations to improve memory. Rosemary stimulates the pineal gland and improves energy levels. Rosemary contains more than a dozen antioxidants. It is a nervine, rejuvenative, stimulant and tonic.
Licorice ( Glycyrrhiza glabra ) is sweet and energizing, and helps stabilize blood sugar levels. It has been used to treat debility, emotional instability, Parkinson’s Disease and stress. It is a tonic, nutritive and rejuvenative.
Oatstraw ( Avena sativa ) is a cerebral and nerve tonic, nutritive and rejuvenative.
Schizandra berries (Schisandra chinensis) are a cerebral tonic that improve the body’s ability to utilize oxygen. In China many people chew a few berries daily to improve concentration and coordination.
Siberian Ginseng ( Eleutherococcus senticosus ) nourishes the pituitary and adrenal glands. Studies done in Russia show it helps improve job accuracy.
Aromas for mental alertness include lemon, lemon grass, lime, peppermint and rosemary. They can be used in a diffuser which disperses aroma into the room, inhaled from a tissue or used in an inhaler. It is ideal to smell the aroma when studying and then again when taking a test or having to perform.
The following techniques can improve mental ability.
1. Travel new routes to inspire different thoughts.
2. Avoid being stuck in a rut. Visit new restaurants and experience the flavors of various cultures. Vary the places you vacation.
3. Socialize with intelligent people. Have in depth discussions.
4. Ask questions and get answers, even if you have to look them up yourself.
5. Sharpen your senses by noticing as many details as possible.
6. Absentmindedness means the mind was not present on the matters at hand. “Be Here Now,” truly is good advice.
7. “I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand.” Learn experientially when possible.
8. Good posture allows energy to better move through the nervous system.
9. Exercise increases the body’s intake of oxygen and speeds up nerve impulses between brain cells. Work up a sweat three times a week.
10. Read challenging things.
11. Use your nondominant hand for several minutes daily for simple tasks to stimulate different neural pathways.
12. Color therapists say yellow is cerebrally stimulating. Highlight important passages you read in yellow. Wear yellow. Use yellow decor in places where mental work is done.
13. Observe Nature.
14. Write down details – phone numbers, things to do and goals. Getting things out of your mind and onto paper helps free you for more creative endeavors. Keep an engagement calendar. Record flashes of brilliance and words of wisdom!
15. When taking classes, sit in different places to gain different perspectives.
16. When attending lectures, take notes on key words and phrases.
17. When wanting to remember something, repeat it aloud to yourself. Visualize it being imprinted upon your brain.
18. To remember names, associate the name with a picture. Visualize Bob turning into a bobcat. Right after being introduced to someone, use their name. “It’s nice to meet you, Denise.” If you don’t quite catch how to say their name, ask how to spell it.
19. When learning something important, with your mind’s eye, see yourself registering the information and filing it. Then practice retrieving it and refilling it.
20. Think positively. You’ll do better if you affirm “I can pass this exam” rather than “I’ll never make it.”
21. Do your best to avoid emotional stress.
22. Avoid damaging substances such as cigarettes, alcohol, pollutants and MSG. Some medications adversely affect the brain.
23. Studying before bed is said to be most effective.
24. Work in teams. Draw on the skills and ideas of your friends and co-workers. Brainstorming where you record wild thoughts and ideas often leads to fruitful concepts.
25. Break negative thoughts with diversion. Go for a walk. Call a friend. Go to a film.
26. Creative people usually retain a childlike quality. Play!
27. Visualization practices mental gymnastics. Einstein supposedly came upon the Theory of Relativity while visualizing flying along at the speed of light.
28. Play mentally challenging games like Chess or Scrabble.
29. Exercises to improve memory are called mnemonics where one makes up interesting information to help remember something. To remember the planets in their order of distance from the sun – M ary’s V iolet E yes M ake J ohn S tay U p N ights. P eriod!
30. Learn things of value for your entire life. Keep an open heart and mind. Be open to the possibilities.

Connie’s comments: When sleeping, make sure all electronic gadgets are not close to your body. Fresh air, nature sounds and napping during midday recharges the brain and be in sync with nature. Massage head regularly with your finger pads, in combing motion and other healing ways. Avoid hormone-filled foods in dairy, meat and milk and strive to find whole foods or start your own garden of veggies and fruits. When you find that your inner eyelid is pale, take liquid form of iron in the morning since it signals lack of minerals esp iron.
Chewing also exercises the brain so take time when eating and do a deep cleansing breath every 15 min. Remember that memory tangles are our brain nerves under stress. Get some sunshine, de-stress, and take quality calcium and magnesium supplements with Vit C and D and do take these nutrients in the afternoon till evening.

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2 min to care for your face before a shower in the morning and same in the evening. A beautiful face is important, wear it well even when we age. Vit C, A, D and E are excellent nutrition for your skin.

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High fat diet or ketogenic diet for Epilepsy (brain seizures)

A List of Ketogenic Foods 

Cheeses | Dairy | Dressings | Fats & Oils | Fish | Flours/Meals/Powders | Fowl | Fruits, low sugar | Fruits, moderate sugar | Meats | Nuts/Legumes | Seeds | Shell Fish | Vegetables, low sugar | Vegetables, moderate sugar |

Each entry is linked to nutritional data and colored according to a code (shown below).

♥ Green = Excellent: Low Carbohydrates, High Polyunsaturated Fats
♣ Blue = Excellent: Low Carbohydrates, High Saturated Fats
♦ Orange = Good: Low Carbohydrates, Low-Moderate Fats

The numbers on the side represent the macronutrient content per 100 grams in the following order:

grams of fat, grams of protein, grams of total carbohydrate / grams of fiber

Fats & Oils 

♥ Almond Butter
♥ Almond Oil
♥ Avocado Oil
♣ Butter
♥ Canola Oil  *
♣ Cocoa Butter
♣ Coconut Oil *****
♥ Fish Oil (cod liver)
♥ Flax Seed Oil
♥ Grape Seed Oil
♥ Hemp Seed Oil
♣ Lard
♥ Macadamia Oil  *****
♥ Mayonnaise
♥ Olive Oil
♣ Peanut Butter
 Peanut Oil
♥ Safflower Oil
♥ Sesame Oil
♥ Soybean Oil
♣ Sunflower Oil
♥ Sunflower Butter
♣ Vegetable Oil  *
♥ Walnut Oil

Fish 

♦ Anchovy  10, 29, 0/0
♦ Bass  5, 24, 0/0
♦ Burbot  1, 25, 0/0
♦ Carp  7, 23, 0/0
♥ Cavier  18, 25, 4/0
♦ Flounder  2, 24, 0/0
♦ Haddock  1, 24, 0/0
♦ Halibut  3, 27, 0/0
♥ Herring  12, 23, 0/0
♥ Mackerel  18, 24, 0/0 *
♥ Salmon  12, 22, 0/0
♥ Sardines  11, 25, 0/0
♦ Sole  2, 24, 0/0
♦ Trout  8, 27, 0/0
♦ Tuna  6, 30, 0/0
♦ Tuna (canned)  8, 29, 0/0

Flours/Meals/Powders 

◌ Acorn Flour
♥ Almond Flour *****
♥ Almond Meal
♥ Flax Seed Meal *****
♦ Protein Powder
♦ Psyllium Husk
◌ Sesame Seed Flour
♦ Splenda

Fowl 

♦ Chicken, Breast  8, 30, 0/0
♣ Chicken, Legs  13, 26, 0/0
♣ Chicken, Wings  19, 21, 0/0
♣ Duck  28, 19, 0/0
♣ Goose  22, 25, 0/0
♣ Quail  14, 25, 0/0
♦ Turkey, breast  7, 29, 0/0
♣ Turkey, ground  13, 27, 0/0
♣ Turkey, bacon  28, 30, 0/0

Fruits, low sugar/glycemic 

♥ Avocado  15, 2, 9/7
⊗ Blackberry  0, 1, 10/5
⊗ Cranberry  0, 0, 12/5
♦ Lemon  0, 1, 11/5
♦ Lime  0, 1, 11/3
◌ Olive, green  15, 1, 4/3
⊗ Raspberry  1, 1, 12/6
⊗ Rhubarb  0, 1, 5/2
⊗ Tomato  0, 1, 4/1

Fruits, moderate sugar/glycemic 

⊗ Apple  0, 1, 6/0
⊗ Strawberry  0, 1, 8/2
⊗ Watermelon  0, 1, 8/0

Meats 

♣ Beef, Ground, 70% lean  18, 26, 0/0
♣ Beef, Ground, 80% lean  17, 27, 0/0
♣ Beef, Ground, 90% lean  12, 28, 0/0
♣ Beef, Roast  17, 26, 0/0
♦ Veal  10, 30, 0/0
♦ Venison, Steak  2, 30, 0/0

Nuts/Legumes 

◌ Almonds  49, 21, 22/12
♥ Brazilnuts  66, 14, 12/8  *
♣ Cashews  44, 18, 33/3
∗ Coconut  33, 3, 15/9
♥ Hazelnuts  62, 15, 18/9
♣ Macadamias  76, 8, 14/9
◌ Peanuts  49, 26, 16/8
♥ Pecans  72, 9, 14/10 *
◌ Pistachios  44, 21, 28/10
♥ Walnuts  65, 15, 14/7

Seeds 

♥ Chia Seeds  31, 16, 44/38  
♥ Flax Seeds  42, 18, 29/27  *
♥ Hemp Seeds  45, 37, 7/3 
♥ Pumpkin Seeds  46, 25, 18/4
♥ Safflower Seeds  38, 16, 34/0
♥ Sesame Seeds  50, 18, 23/12
♥ Sunflower Seeds  50, 19, 24/11

Shell Fish 

♦ Clams  2, 26, 5/0
♦ Crabmeat  2, 19, 0/0
♦ Lobster  1, 21, 1/0
♦ Oysters  2, 7, 7/0
♦ Shrimp  1, 21, 0/0
♦ Squid  7, 18, 8/0

Vegetables, low sugar/glycemic 

♦ Arugula  1, 3, 4/2
♦ Asparagus  0, 2, 4/2
♦ Bok Choy  0, 1, 2/1
♦ Broccoli  0, 3, 6/2
♦ Broccoli Rabe  0, 3, 3/3  *
♦ Cabbage  0, 1, 6/3
♦ Cauliflower, raw  0, 2, 5/3 *
♦ Celery  0, 1, 3/2
♦ Chard  0, 2, 4/2
♦ Chicory Greens  0, 2, 5/4
♦ Cucumber  0, 1, 2/1
♦ Eggplant  0, 1, 3/3
♦ Endive  0, 1, 3/3
♦ Fennel bulb  0, 1, 7/3
♦ Garlic  0, 6, 33/2
♦ Green Bean  0, 2, 7/3
♦ Jalapeno  1, 1, 6/3
♦ Lettuce, Green Leaf  0, 1, 3/1
♦ Lettuce, Romaine  0, 1, 3/2
♦ Parsley  1, 3, 6/3
♦ Radish  0, 1, 3/2
♦ Spinach  0, 3, 4/2
♦ Soy Bean  9, 17, 10/6
♦ Zucchini  0, 1, 3/1

Vegetables, moderate sugar/glycemic 

♦ Artichoke  0, 3, 11/5
♦ Brussel Sprouts  0, 3, 9/4
⊗ Carrots, raw  0, 1, 8/3
⊗ Celeriac  0, 1, 9/2
♦ Kale  1, 3, 10/2
♦ Kohlrabi  0, 2, 6/4
♦ Mushrooms  0, 2, 5/2
♦ Okra  0, 2, 7/3
⊗ Onion  0, 1, 9/2
♦ Pepper, sweet, green  0, 1, 5/2
⊗ Pepper, sweet, red  0, 1, 6/2
♦ Pepper, hot, red  0, 2, 9/1
♦ Pepper, sweet, yellow  0, 1, 6/1
♦ Pumpkin  0, 1, 6/0
♦ Snow Pea  0, 3, 7/2
♦ Spaghetti Squash  1, 1, 7/0
⊗ Turnips  0, 1, 6/2

Source:

http://josepharcita.blogspot.com/2011/03/guide-to-ketosis.html#33MM

Side effects of drug for seizures

Call your doctor at once if you have a serious side effect such as:

  • increased seizures;

  • fever, swollen glands, body aches, flu symptoms;

  • skin rash, easy bruising or bleeding, severe tingling, numbness, pain, muscle weakness;

  • upper stomach pain, loss of appetite, dark urine, jaundice (yellowing of the skin or eyes);

  • chest pain, irregular heart rhythm, feeling short of breath;

  • confusion, nausea and vomiting, swelling, rapid weight gain, urinating less than usual or not at all;

  • new or worsening cough, fever, trouble breathing; or

  • rapid back and forth movement of your eyes.

Some side effects are more likely in children taking Gabapentin. Contact your doctor if the child taking this medication has any of the following side effects:

  • changes in behavior;
  • memory problems;
  • trouble concentrating; or
  • acting restless, hostile, or aggressive.

Less serious side effects may include:

  • dizziness, drowsiness, weakness, tired feeling;
  • nausea, diarrhea, constipation;
  • blurred vision;
  • headache;
  • breast swelling;
  • dry mouth; or
  • loss of balance or coordination
Nutrients Depleted by Anti-convulsants/anti-seizures:

 

Drug Nutrient Depletion

Contraceptives/Nutrient Depletion
(taking birth control pills deplete or decrease your body with the following nutrients):
• DHEA
• Folate
• Magnesium
• Melatonin
• Riboflavin
• Selenium
• Thiamin
• Vitamin A
• Vitamin B5 (pantothenic acid)
• Vitamin B6/pyridoxine
• Vitamin B12
• Vitamin C/ascorbic acid
• Zinc

CNS Depressants/Nutrient Depletion:
• Beta-carotene
• Calcium
• DHEA
• Folate
• Lycopene
• Magnesium
• Phosphorus
• Vitamin B12
• Zinc

Antilipemics or Cholesterol Absorption Inhibitors /Nutrient Depletion:
• Beta-carotene
• Beta-sitosterol
• Calcium
• Coenzyme Q10 (CoQ10)
• Folate
• Iron
• Lycopene
• Magnesium
• Phosphorus
• Vitamin A/retinol
• Vitamin B12
• Vitamin D/calciferol
• Vitamin E
• Vitamin K
• Zinc

Source: http://www.naturalpractitionermag.com/depletions_drugs.html

Connie’s comments: Up your intake of the depleted nutrients as a result of taking anti-depressants, birth control pills or Cholesterol Absorption Inhibitors.
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Healthy Eating Habits

Healthy Eating Habits

Combining healthy eating habits and losing weight is tricky. So many considerations have to be examined such as:

  1. Use of birth control pills, caffeine, tobacco, alcohol, medications, other drugs that affected your hormones and other body chemistries
  2. Underacting or overacting thyroid, kidney, liver and other glands or organs in your body
  3. Status and health of neuro-transmitters in your brain which can stop the hunger hormone or wreak havoc in your pituitary gland which is responsible for food cravings
  4. Availability of whole foods or fast foods (unhealthy).
  5. Desire to eat healthy and lose weight or extra pounds
  6. Knowledge of nutrition such as adding fibers, cutting on sugar, selecting hormone free eggs/meat/milk or stopping from your intake of dairy/cheese/red meat
  7. Body, health and other issues such as:
    – teeth and chewing affects digestion of nutrients
    – depression tends to affect intake of food
    – happy foods such as yams, dark chocolate makes us feel satisfied
    – others such as parasites, diabetes, and other health conditions

Depending on your goal of losing excess weight of 20+ lbs in a year and keeping it or losing 20 lbs in 6 months and keeping it, here are quick tips:

  1. To have a good bowel movement of 2-3 or more times during the day, add fiber in your diet. Colon cleanse is the first step.  Senna tea helps in regular bowel, fiber in many food brands are readily available such as Bene Fiber, chia seeds and flax seeds.  Stop eating or do not eat as much of the following constipating foods for a few months: cheese, milk and meat.
  2. Chewing, eating slowly and digesting properly. Digestive enzymes should be taken before meals (papaya, pineapple). Probiotics or acidophilus should be taken in the morning before a meal to keep good bacteria in our gut.
  3. Drink 30 min before and 30 after meals. Sipping water during meals to ensure not to dilute stomach acid to break down fats in meats and food.
  4. Alkaline diet and drink help our body fight any bacteria and keep our immune system strong. Add lemon in warm water in the morning and eat more veggies. Aloe vera juice, diluted if sugar is present, helps us in maintaining an alkaline system. Eating more meat make our body acidic, prone to disease.
  5. For those lacking in iron, liquid iron (from whole food, veggies) in the morning with Vit C and calcium with magnesium and Vit C and D in the afternoon and evening.  Vitamin C is very important in most of the chemical processes in our body.
  6. Proper sleep helps us lose weight.  Sleep before 11pm for the sake of our liver.
  7. Juicing greens and fasting once a month with only a protein shake and water can help those who go to work each day.
  8. Walk after a meal and stretch anytime you can.
  9. Listen and love your body. Menopausal women need extra weight to cope with menopause. Vitamin B complex is an anti-stress vitamin.

 Connie Dello Buono, Health Coach

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Parasites and their effects on your immune system

It may sound like a bunch of BS, but two researchers have unlocked clues about medieval famine by recovering centuries-old, petrified poop from a castle latrine.
In a recent study published in the International Journal of Paleopathology, doctors Piers D. Mitchell and Evilena Anastasiou of the archaeology and anthropology department at the University of Cambridge in the UK explained how they discovered and analyzed preserved feces in the Frankish castle of Saranda Kolones on the island of Cyprus.
About Roundworm Infections
The castle was built in 1191 and was only used by the crusading armies of King Richard I of England for 30 years before being destroyed by an earthquake. Researchers took samples from the castle latrine, suspended them in water to make a solution, and then passed the solution through small strainers.
They discovered roundworm and whipworm eggs in the poo samples, bringing to light the poor hygienic conditions the crusaders experienced. Past research shows that crusaders faced malnutrition during times of siege and famine, and the new discovery tells us why: Parasites competed with the crusaders for their bodies’ own nutrients.
Mitchell said his ancient data mining is important because learning about human health and disease in medieval times helps us understand what life was like back then. “Showing the kind of diseases crusaders suffered with helps us to understand why so many of them died on crusade expeditions from malnutrition and infectious disease,” he told Healthline.
About Whipworm Infections
In modern times, roundworm and whipworm infections can be treated with medications and generally are not fatal. But in medieval times, when coupled with malnutrition on long journeys, the parasites did many of the crusaders in. In fact, 15 to 20 percent of crusaders died of either malnutrition or infectious disease while on expedition, aided by an abundance of intestinal creepy-crawlies.
“Once hatched in the human intestines, the immature roundworms undergo an incredible migration, with the first stage larvae penetrating the blood vessels and appearing as second stage larvae in the liver within six hours after the initial infection,” the study authors wrote. “In the liver, the larvae develop into their third stage and they then migrate to the heart and lungs. Eight to 10 days after the original infection, the larvae burrow their way from the heart and lungs back to the small intestine, where they reach maturity. The mature female then starts to lay about 200,000 eggs per day.”
Female whipworms can release 2,000 to 10,000 eggs per day, the researchers added.
Mitchell hopes that by studying the composition of these ancient parasites modern-day researchers can develop more effective medications to treat this type of infestation.
Anthropologists Discover Bone Tumor in 120,000-year-old Caveman Remains
“When we study ancient parasites it has the potential to help us understand how parasites may change in the future,” Mitchell said. “For example, if we look at the DNA in past parasites and compare with modern parasites, it can help us to work out in what way they are evolving over time, and so how they may look in the future. This is important, as there is no point making drugs that act on parts of a parasite that are in the process of changing.”
“Some types of parasites have been present in humans right from the start of our evolution,” Mitchell added. “These we inherited from other primates in Africa. However, some parasites only started to infect humans when our ancestors left Africa and migrated around the planet, and this brought them into contact with new parasite species.”
As for the “ick factor” involved in this type of hands-on research, Mitchell said it was really no big deal. “Once hundreds of years have passed, there is no nasty smell,” he said. “It just looks like soil.”
Parasitic infections in the gastro-intestinal tract are common. Eighty percent of North Americans harbour one or more parasites. It is so wide-spread because of international travel, immigration, contamination of the water and food supply, use of daycare centres, household pets, antibiotic use and chemical contamination. Giardia and pinworms are the two most common intestinal parasites.
Intestinal parasites cause illness by competing with the host for nutrients and secreting waste products that cause allergic and autoimmune reactions.

Parasitic infections in the digestive tract can be difficult to diagnose because the symptoms look similar to other abdominal illnesses. Common symptoms include appetite changes, abdominal pain and cramping, diarrhea and stool changes. Dehydration may occur due to the diarrhea. If the infection is long-term weight loss, malnourishment and chronic digestive problems manifest.

Conventional treatment involves the use of anti-parasitic medication. This usually takes care of the current infection. However, the body becomes susceptible to subsequent infections if friendly bacteria are not replaced.

Good hygiene is important to prevent parasitic infections. Wash your hands, with soap, before eating and wash your hands frequently when preparing food. Wash your hands after using the toilet. Always cook foods fully and use a fork thermometer for checking the temperature inside of cuts of meat. The most contaminated foods are commercial pork products followed by beef, chicken, lamb and fish. Wash fruits and vegetables with 1 tbsp of apple cider vinegar in one gallon of water and soak for 15 minutes.
What you can do to prevent parasites:
– WASH YOUR HANDS AFTER TOUCHING YOUR PET
– COOK MEAT WELL
– AFTER PREPARING RAW MEAT IN THE KITCHEN, ENSURE THAT EVERYTHING IS CLEANED WELL, INCLUDING YOUR HANDS
– DO A GOOD PARASITE CLEANSE EVERY YEAR OR EVERY SIX MONTHS
– ENSURE THE PURITY OF YOUR DRINKING WATER

The best way to prevent parasitic infections is to have a healthy immune system and good digestive environment. Take extra precautions while traveling and camping. Ensure that the water supply is safe or use water bottles with built-in filtration systems.

Avoid foods that stimulate parasite growth such as gluten containing grains, dairy products, eggs, artificial sweeteners, food additives, alcohol, caffeine, sugar, soft drinks, peanuts and cashews. Eat foods that are high in carotenes like sweet potatoes, carrots, spinach, squash, kale and cantaloupe.
Eat foods that are high in antioxidants and vitamin C like citrus fruits, broccoli, strawberries, melons and brussel sprouts. Rice products and blueberries help to stop diarrhea.

Well-cooked lamb, poultry and fish are high in protein and help to heal the intestine. Foods that kill parasites are garlic, raw pumpkin seeds, fresh coconut, papaya and papaya seeds.

Parasites undergo larval and adult phases that coordinate with the moon cycle. The most effective time to start treatment is a few days before the full moon. Ensure that the treatment continues through several cycles in order to make sure all of the organisms are destroyed.
The following list of supplements can be used for preventing and treating parasites. They are best taken at the first signs of an infection. Adult doses are given. (CLICK SUPPLEMENT NAME FOR PRODUCTS).

SUPPLEMENTS

GREENS SUPPLEMENT OR SPIRULINA
Helps to detoxify the body from the toxins that parasites produce. Also contains nutrients the body may need in cases of parasitic infection. Improves energy.

BLACK WALNUT, WORMWOOD COMBINATION & CLOVES
Recommended by Dr. Hulda Clarke for parasite cleansing. Available in a kit.

OREGANO OIL
Proven to fight parasites and candida

PROBIOTICS / ACIDOPHILUS
Helps to replenish good bacteria in the body to prevent re-infection. Enhances the immune system. An essential after antibiotic use.

GLUTAMINE
Helps to repair damage to the intestinal lining that parasites can cause.

GARLIC
Kills parasites and prevents infection. Can be used during travel as a preventative.

GRAPEFRUIT SEED EXTRACT
Kills parasites and prevents infection. Can be used during travel as a preventative.

MEDICINAL CLAY
Inhibits parasitic reproduction. Absorbs toxic by-products of the parasites.

DIGESTIVE ENZYMES WITH HCL
Acid kills parasites and enzymes digest them. Do not use HCl if you have ulcers or hyperacidity.

Other supplements and food to fight parasites: Multivitamins, aerobic oxygen, fibre, Swedish bitters, glutamine, barberry root, black walnut husk, cloves, milk thistle, pumpkin seed and wormwood.

Muscadine Grapes
Muscadine grapes are one of most potent fruits with a unique polyphenol profile that offers a number of health benefits. Unlike other grapes, muscadine grapes boast superior concentrations of ellagitanins that, when combined with other muscadine grape polyphenols, yield immense antioxidant power.
Resveratrol
A natural antioxidant compound found in some plants, seeds, and fruits, including grapes and grape-derived products such as red wine. Resveratrol is a polyphenol that has been found to potentially improve health and well-being in laboratory studies from around the globe.

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Gloves, hospital, homebirth, infection

I delivered my children at home with midwives because I want to be in home birth setting, be attended by midwives, not be in hospital setting where more microbes and bacteria exist that can cause infection and for many reasons.

Many years ago, before the introduction of gloves, many laboring women died in the hospital. Now, we have all kinds of gloves and a clean environment to operate and care for patients in the clinic and hospital settings.

Many elderly in care homes and nursing homes have urinary tract infections because of lack of hygiene which can be prevented.

In our homes, we use so many cleaning chemicals and so we should be wearing gloves too as our skin can soak up any chemicals it comes in contact with.  My mother-in law died of colon cancer. She is so clean that she have used so many strong cleaning chemicals at her house.  Aside from white bread, nutrition, toxic chemicals in our environment and our genes, there are so many factors that can contribute to cancer. We need to stay away from toxins and infectious organisms with proper hygiene.

Hand washing should be a norm.  Our immune system can only handle so many infectious organisms.

Protect yourself from all kinds of toxins outside and inside your body.

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Cherries and red cabbage as anti-arthritis and anti-skin cancer

The same chemical compound that causes the leaves of trees such as maples and sumacs among others to turn red in the autumn is also contained in the black cherry in high amounts. That compound is anthocyanins. The anthocyanins are actually present all the time in the leaves of many trees, it is just masked by the green of the chlorophyll. When the chlorophyll fades back in the autumn, the red color of the anthocyanins show themselves in full spectacle.

This anthocyanin compound has a number of amazing capabilities, among them the ability to act as an anti-inflammatory agent, as a anti-carcinogenic agent, as an antioxidant, as a soporific agent, and as an anti-arthritic agent. The black cherry possess high amounts of vitamin A and C and bioflavenoids as well.

As an anti-inflammatory agent the anthocyanins are especially useful in treating gout. Gout is a very painful condition that occurs due to production of high levels of uric acid in the body. These are mainly believed to be associated with eating certain foods such as shell fish. It most commonly affects men and is localized in the big toe, though it can affect the joints of the fingers, elbows and knees as well. The big toe swells up, is reddened and extremely painful to the touch, so much so that you can’t even put your shoes on. The anthocyanins reduce the levels of uric acid in the body and allow the uric acid to pass safely out of the body with the urine. This not only relieves the pain from the gout, but can actually prevent the gout attacks from occurring in the first place.

By preventing damage to the skin from the harmful ultraviolet A and ultraviolet B rays of the sun, anthocyanins act to stop many forms of skin cancer from developing. They are also useful in preventing and reducing other forms of cancer as well.

The powerful antioxidant effect of the anthocyanins prevent damage to the cells of the body from
free radicals, which would otherwise lead to early dead of the various cells of the body, premature aging and illness.

If you suffer from insomnia or just have trouble falling asleep at night, the soporific effect of the anthocyanins work by releasing the hormone melatonin into your system. This produces a calming effect on the body allowing you to sleep naturally.

The anti-arthritic capability associated with anthocyanins, assisted by the bioflavenoids, helps to reduce the swelling that occurs in the joints when you are affected by arthritis and reduces the stiffness as well.

Among the many other attributes of black cherry juice are lowering of blood pressure, protection of the heart, easing and even preventing migraines, help with formation of the connective tissue such as collagen and promoting good eye health. How much black cherry juice do you need to consume each day? Some people do well with just one glass a day, others need more, but taking the juice is easier than trying to eat three or more bowls of fresh cherries a day. Whether it will be effective for you is something you have to try for yourself, but the majority of people who do try
it see some benefit.

About

Anthocyanins (also anthocyans; from Greek: ἀνθός (anthos) = flower + κυανός (kyanos) = blue) are water-soluble vacuolar pigments that may appear red, purple, or blue depending on the pH. They belong to a parent class of molecules called flavonoids synthesized via the phenylpropanoid pathway; they are odorless and nearly flavorless, contributing to taste as a moderately astringent sensation. Anthocyanins occur in all tissues of higher plants, including leaves, stems, roots, flowers, and fruits. Anthoxanthins are clear, white to yellow counterparts of anthocyanins occurring in plants. Anthocyanins are derivatives of anthocyanidins, which include pendant sugars.

Plants rich in anthocyanins are Vaccinium species, such as blueberry, cranberry, and bilberry; Rubus berries, including black raspberry, red raspberry, and blackberry; blackcurrant, cherry, eggplant peel, black rice, Concord grape, muscadine grape, red cabbage, and violet petals. Anthocyanins are less abundant in banana, asparagus, pea, fennel, pear, and potato, and may be totally absent in certain cultivars of green gooseberries.  Red-fleshed peaches are rich in anthocyanins.

The highest recorded amount appears to be specifically in the seed coat of black soybean (Glycine max L. Merr.) containing some 2,000 mg per 100 g[13] and in skins and pulp of black chokeberry (Aronia melanocarpa L.) (table). However, the Amazonian palmberry, açaí, having about 320 mg per 100 g[14] of which cyanidin-3-glucoside is the most prevalent individual anthocyanin (approximately 10 mg per 100 g),[15] is also a high-content source for which only a small fraction of total anthocyanins has been determined to date. Due to critical differences in sample origin, preparation and extraction methods determining anthocyanin content,[16][17] the values presented in the adjoining table are not directly comparable.

Nature, traditional agriculture, and plant breeding have produced various uncommon crops containing anthocyanins, including blue- or red-flesh potatoes and purple or red broccoli, cabbage, cauliflower, carrots, and corn. Tomatoes have been bred conventionally for high anthocyanin content by crossing wild relatives with the common tomato to transfer a gene called the anthocyanin fruit tomato (aft) gene into a larger and more palatable fruit.[18]

Connie’s comments: The darker the skin color of fruits and veggies, the more nutrition they pack. Have a healthy skin, wear it well.
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Food source and Anthocyanin content in mg per 100 g

Açaí 320
Blackcurrant 190-270
Chokeberry 1,480
Eggplant 750
Blood orange ~200
Marion blackberry 317
Black raspberry 589
Raspberry 365
Wild blueberry 558
Cherry 350-400
Redcurrant 80-420
Purple corn 1,642

Eat protein-rich food when drinking alcohol to protect your stomach

The human stomach does digest itself, but the stomach lining has evolved to regenerate itself completely every few days.

Excessive alcohol consumption can lead to a variety of stomach problems, from a night of vomiting to a serious case of gastritis. Stomach acid levels are affected by alcohol, and heavy drinking can cause discomfort or irritate conditions (such as ulcers) that you already have. If you have stomach pain, it is best to avoid drinking alcohol until you talk to your doctor. 

 

Alcohol consumption has many dangers and side effects, and if you are experiencing severe pain in your stomach after this, there’s plenty of cause to be concerned. This discomfort is often seen after a night of binge drinking, and is accompanied by many other symptoms as well. While you might think that you are ‘manning it out’ by overlooking the pain, the fact is, this could be something you would live to regret. Stomach pain could be your body sending out signs telling you that all is not well, and you might want to take it seriously. For some, stomach pain may be a common occurrence, simply because they have been used to consuming alcohol in copious amounts.

Why Does Alcohol Cause Stomach Ache Anyway?

Gastrointestinal (GI) tract is the first organ system that gets exposed to alcohol. Chronic alcohol consumption alters the structure as well as functions of the GI tract which leads to stomach ache, heartburn, acid reflux and abdominal discomfort. Some of the reasons for such stomach ache and other symptoms are as follows:

Alcohol is a pro-oxidant. It is rapidly metabolized, and known to generate reactive oxygen species. This causes oxidative damage to cells and tissues of the GI tract.
Acute alcoholism leads to acute gastrointestinal bleeding and diarrhea.
Alcohol causes the gastric mucosa to shrink leading to decreased gastric acid secretion.
Alcoholism has deleterious effects on ‘gut barrier’, which refers to the single layered epithelium lining the stomach. This epithelium is selectively permeable, and plays an important role in the absorption of nutrients and protection of stomach tissues from the acidic environment of the stomach. The disruption of this barrier induces autoimmunity and inflammation leading to stomach pain and cramps.
Alcohol consumption triggers inflammatory bowel disease and gastritis leading to ulceration of the epithelial lining. This also increases the chances of contracting other infections which are otherwise inhibited by the epithelial lining.
Alcoholism induces inflammation of pancreas which leads to abdominal pain accompanied by nausea and vomiting.

Drink alcohol with meals

It used to be thought that ulcers were the plight of middle-aged, overworked, stressed-out men who lived on a diet of greasy pizza and beer. Although there’s always some truth in stereotypes, women are unfortunately just as susceptible to ulcers as men, and stress and diet aren’t the only factors that can lead to an ulcer.

Ulcers are caused when the mucus membrane lining the esophagus, stomach or upper intestine becomes compromised. In order to break down food, the stomach is filled with highly acidic gastric juices. The mucus membrane normally protects the organs, but if the amount of acid in the stomach increases or the mucus membrane weakens, ulcers, commonly known as peptic ulcers, can occur.

1. Leafy greens (and cabbage!) contain high amounts of vitamin K, which can help heal damage done by ulcers. Vitamin K speeds up the healing process and aids in blood clotting. Eat several servings of vitamin K-rich foods daily.

2. Chamomile tea works two-fold to fight ulcers. First, chamomile is a soothing herb, helping to induce calm and relieve stress. Second, chamomile has anti-inflammatory properties that can help speed up the healing process and fight the H. pylori bacteria. Drink up to four cups of chamomile tea a day.

3. Probiotics help restore the balance of bacteria in the body, making them useful for fighting off the H. pylori bacteria that commonly causes ulcers. Probiotics also aid digestion, which can be helpful in bringing the stomach’s juices under control. Take a supplement with at least 4 billion active cultures twice daily, or eat probitoic-rich foods such as yogurt.

4. Aloe vera, known for its soothing properties, can help heal damaged mucus linings. Aloe’s antibacterial properties also make it useful for fighting off the H. pylori bacteria. Drink ¼ cup of aloe vera juice three time daily.

5. Oats and whole grains contain soluble fiber and zinc, which promotes tissue repair and can help heal ulcers.

Connie’s comments:  Our liver and kidneys are working so hard to process alcohol and clean our body from the toxic effects of alcohol.  Our gut, where majority of our immune system is located , will be weakened by alcohol. Our brain shrinks.  Our skin ages prematurely. So consume alcohol wisely with meals or after a meal.

My resolutions changed with my struggle with cancer, by Suleika Jaouad, 24-yr old

In my darkest days in the oncology unit, I promised myself that if I ever got into remission one day, I would become a stronger, healthier and better version of my precancer self. What could be a bigger inspiration to live a healthier life than surviving cancer? I imagined that once and for all I was going to become the kind of person who meditates every morning, guzzles green juice, does yoga and, on occasion, even runs a marathon.

Before my diagnosis with leukemia, two years ago at the age of 22, I’d always excelled at making resolutions. But I was never as good at keeping them. Like a lot of young people, I burned the candle at both ends, with an age-appropriate dose of invincibility. After working 100-hour weeks (or more) as a paralegal, my first job out of college, my way of letting loose after a long day was by meeting friends for cocktails after work, grabbing fast food on the go and staying up as late as I wanted. Resolutions came and went. I would get to them later, I told myself.

Then I learned I had cancer, and my life and my resolution-making were interrupted. Suddenly the scope of my worries had changed drastically. There was no time or space to stress over something as small as a three-day juice cleanse or a daily exercise program. Surviving my next cycle of chemotherapy became my singular concern.

Today, after two years of nonstop chemotherapy treatments, I’m finally getting some strength back. The future has been a place of fear and uncertainty since my diagnosis, but with only two monthlong cycles of chemo left, I’m looking forward to getting a glimpse of “normal” life. And naturally, as I’ve started to feel better, I’m also making resolutions again.

That’s how I found myself signing up to run a half-marathon, just eight months after undergoing a bone marrow transplant, a high-risk procedure that my doctors said was my only shot at a cure. Sure, I’d been bedridden for the better part of the past two years. And yes, I was still undergoing maintenance chemotherapy that left me so weak on some days that even walking my dog around the block felt like a challenge. But I’d heard the stories of superhuman cancer patients who had radically changed their lives and who went on to climb Mount Everest or run ultramarathons. I wanted to be one of them.

I got a gym membership, invested in a pair of fancy new running shoes and threw myself into an intensive workout regimen. I was off to the races. I even posted a triumphant picture on Facebook: There I was, one arm outstretched in a fist above my head, taking my first steps on a new marathon-training program I learned about from an iPhone app.

But my big running dreams lasted about 12 days.

I began to feel a nagging ache in the arches of my feet, and more pain in my shins. I iced the affected areas and continued my training, but the pain got worse. I didn’t want to give up, as I had with past resolutions. Certainly, I told myself, fighting cancer had made me tougher than a few simple aches and pains. But within a month, even walking had become excruciating. I hadn’t just overdone it. I had really hurt myself.

That’s how I ended up back in the emergency room, hooked up to a morphine drip — this time not for cancer-related reasons, but to get X-rays of my legs.

Luckily, nothing turned out to be seriously wrong. But my doctors, who hadn’t known about my do-it-yourself marathon training regimen, ordered me to stop immediately and to go back on bed rest. Was I crazy? they asked. All I knew was that I was back to square one, lying in bed feeling defeated and discouraged as I dug into a bag of jelly beans (my favorite).

In retrospect, a marathon so soon after my transplant was never a realistic or healthy option for me. It did, though, teach me an important lesson: Surviving a health crisis changes you in real and profound ways, but it doesn’t magically transform you into a healthier or better person overnight. Cancer has made me mentally and spiritually stronger. But as my life starts to go back to normal, I find that some of my old, bad habits are still lurking in the shadows.

I’m still struggling to figure out how to turn my resolutions into long-lasting change, but I’ve learned this much: Getting healthy starts with accepting the fact that after two years of cancer treatment, my body has taken a hit. Getting healthy means listening to my body — and no longer comparing myself with other people at the gym. Getting healthy means being satisfied with small, sustainable, incremental changes to my diet and lifestyle. I wanted to go from zero to 60, but I’m learning to accept zero to 15.

For now, my only resolution will be to define what my own “marathon” is. Only I can determine that. That’s probably not just a cancer problem; it’s a human one too.

The part of travelling that matters most, by Inge Geerdens

Summer is approaching fast and chances are you’ve planned a vacation. Are you looking forward to relaxing on the beach, tasting some culture and history on your holiday or going on adventures? Don’t forget to enjoy getting there! A recent encounter I had, reminded me of how great unexpected meetings are when travelling.

Like many other people, I have the tendency to take my own life as a reference for that of everybody else. Since I live in Antwerp, a city that is easily accessible, where I could buy chocolate milk at 3am if I wanted, I sometimes forget that is not the case for everyone. The other day, I got in contact with a 75 year old lady. The occasion wasn’t that promising: we were both planning to fly home from San Francisco when our flight got cancelled. In order to exchange our plane ticket, we had to queue for hours. The woman had been in San Francisco to help her 77-year-old sister, who was ill. Now my fellow traveller had to go back home since her three months stay in the US came to an end.

She was returning to her home at Fair Island, one of the most remote inhabited islands in the United Kingdom. Only 70 people live there. The island has one nurse, one shop that is accessible two hours per day and one pub that only opens on Saturday evenings. The islanders have 1 ‘Chief’ that represents them in the council on the principal island of the region. To go shopping in a supermarket, the lady had to take two boats. In order to get home from the US, she was flying to London and then transferring to an internal flight to a regional airport. The cancellation of her flight meant she would be delayed for a few days, since only two boats per week navigate from that airport to her island. That is such a contrast with my own life that I had a hard time imagining what living like that would be like.

So we had a nice talk about the pros and cons of living on a small island. If you live on a remote, windy location with only 70 people, you obviously know everything about each other. That means you empathize. So when a baby was born the year before, the islanders organized a big party. But then the wife of a newly arrived couple with two kids had an affair with the shopkeeper. Her (now ex-)husband moved to a different island with the kids. Which means there are now only five children left on the island…

After queuing for three hours, it was our turn to exchange tickets. 
The lady surprisingly gave me a kiss on each cheek and thanked me for keeping her company…

 It’s not always simple, enjoying the moment. But like the saying goings: every cloud has a silver lining.

So remember to treasure the unexpected things that happen, since you’ll never know what they’ll lead to. And whomever you meet on the road, be prepared to learn from them.

Connie’s comments: Experience peak moments with others especially those you love

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Your attitude affects your health, by Helen Martyre

Your friends, spouse, or partner-anyone that you spend a lot of time with, can impact how you see the world and feel about yourself. If you find yourself often feeling negative or hopeless, take a look at the company you keep. If the people you spend most of your time with tend to approach things negatively, offer little hope or treat you poorly, it may be affecting your life much more than you think.
What’s more interesting is that the influence of the attitude and disposition of the people you are with can go unnoticed. A person may not realize they are becoming any more negative or positive as time goes on, and if they do, they may be completely unaware it’s being caused by the company they keep.

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When gloomy people spend lots of time with someone who has a cheerful outlook, it can change their psychological “language.” When cheerful people spend time around gloomy roommates, it can darken their outlook.

You can’t just abandon the people you’re with and find only ultra-positive people to be around, but you can try and diversify your social circle. Try spending more time with positive friends, reading positive books, and doing things that make you feel better about yourself and your future. Everything is connected, so finding the right connections to make is quite important.

Connie’s comments: Happiness breeds happiness. Your surrounding colors your life. When you are full of life, cells in your body grow and flourish. Be happy and be healthy, it shows in your actions, thoughts and life.
My sister Analyn was surrounded by loving and happy family and friends when she was in the hospital that she felt strong and her courage helped her cope with her condition.

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